Now this discourse on Interesting Parallels is very relevant if you are a worker tasked with protecting children, whether or not you have leadership ambitions.
The reason that it is relevant is because the parallels highlight the vital importance of being aware of 1): the whole truth in a democracy, and 2): the danger of accepting half-truths, lies, and deceptions dressed up as fact, and their influence on decisions made by the Pillars.
Linking child protection and democracy – and because this website is primarily about protecting children who may follow older members of their families into a life of crime – I believe that the prevalence (or otherwise) of crime and illegal terrorism is a test of good enough democracy.
Observing the world around us, in countries where you have good enough, accountable, democracy, with accompanying transparent fairness and justice, and a manageable gap between rich and poor, you have low crime rates, low imprisonment rates, and virtually no illegal terrorism.
Such countries are not, of course, perfect. But their commitment to and tradition of democracy optimises the conditions for adherence to rigorous and transparent human rights legislation, respect for minorities and high regard for women’s rights. (In respect of the amount of violence in our world, I think that it’s good for humanity that machismo appears to be on the decline. Most of the harm that is done to our world is driven by machismo).
In such a country, a critical mass (or perhaps more than a critical mass, perhaps the majority) of people have a sense of inclusion and feel that their concerns will be addressed. Most believe that if unscrupulous people in their society are corrupt, their behaviour won’t be tolerated by those in whom they have vested authority to do something about it, i.e. those who they have voted in to govern. (Govern means regulate – people seem to have forgotten that)! This is true even if they are part of a minority that might, in some countries, suffer from discrimination.
On the other hand, if we observe our elected representatives (and the state authorities – i.e. the Pillars) doing nothing about corruption, unfairness and perceived injustice, and paying only lip-service to the rights of minorities, we lose faith in our ability – at the ballot box – to be influential enough to change what we are not happy with.
When people become alienated from mainstream society and/or those who make up the rules that the majority of people live by (and legitimise general behaviour) they may legitimise behaviour themselves, i.e. take the law into their own hands.
In this, almost all of our behaviours
are legitimised by either the law of the land or the most people think that it is ok principle. For example once upon a time it was the law
of the land, and most people thought that it was ok, to have slaves. Owning other humans, buying them, selling
them, punishing them severely or even killing them, and/or working them to
death were legitimate acts.
Many young men who end up in addiction, criminality and gangs grow up in families that suffer a lot of pain. Mostly, this is emotional pain experienced when growing up in a family with the characteristics that I described in the Sub-Chapter on the Focus Group, and that I will describe again in the Chapter on Trauma and Related Topics.
Combined with the suffering there has been the exclusion from decision making, and a felt sense of injustice and alienation over, perhaps, many generations.
All this suffering and alienation notwithstanding, in the eyes of the Pillars, people who go to prison are either patronised/talked down to in a condescending way, or else condemned by all right thinking people, portrayed as evil, malicious, deceitful, dishonest, violent, (and often nothing else), often ridiculed as stupid and unintelligent, and referred to in derogatory terms designed to perpetuate the shallow thinking that characterises most debate and discussion on crime anywhere. (As I already described).
The young man who is expelled from, or drops out of school, gets involved in drugs, joins a gang etc. and goes on a crime spree gets his legitimacy from his peers who are doing the same thing – as well as powerful messages from many young people who grow up in families within the Focus Group, a combination of no one cares about us and most people think that it is ok, thinking which drives their behavioural norms.
The double-speak of the Pillars (and I’d say here, in particular, the media) when it comes to criminality and terrorism vs. the state sponsored military/industrial complex, and the glaring evidence of the utter unfairness of the establishment, and the in-our-faces privileged position of the moneyed classes is like a long running background noise (analogous to something like tinnitus) that constantly irritates and fosters anger and disaffection.
When all this is combined with the probable experience of trauma, poverty, anger, perhaps despair, and lack of connection to the norms of society it is a potent mix indeed.
I have included this Sub-Chapter entitled Interesting Parallels firstly to raise awareness of the double-speak of the establishment (most of which, it must be admitted, is probably unintentional) and secondly to encourage us to think systemically and, in particular, always question everything.
Because there is a link between all the above and how the most vulnerable are treated!