Having offered some understanding of emergence in the last two posts, 3.2.2.2, and 3.2.2.3, I will now discuss the relevance of systems theory when it comes to the family – which – as I said earlier – has a central role to play in healing of hurt and distress.
Systems theory posits that all forms of life unfolds or emerges and that relationships involve self-organisation – that is, making decisions in respect of growth based on influences that come from within as much as are external.
For example, when two people meet, fall in love, live together and decide to start a family (as we used to say back in the day) their actions have potential beyond which they themselves imagine at that time.
Their family, even as yet not begun, will increase in complexity as it unfolds, emerges and organises itself, (that is, as it grows). The decision of the two people has potential, capacity, and intention contained within the decision itself – independent of any external influence or pressures. Families that are good enough have a high level of self-organisation which enhances trust, at-ease relationships and both individual and collective responsibility.
The trust arises from the healthy acceptance of uncertainty.
I’m pretty sure that all parents will agree that the whole of their family cannot be reduced to individual parts. (Once again, the ancients knew this; I believe that the expression the whole is more than the sum of their parts is attributed to Aristotle, the Greek philosopher).
Just to explain, let us say that a family consists of Mammy, Daddy and three children. Now let us say that someone wants to understand some element of the family’s growth, (for example, how relationships are forming). Their understanding will not be very complete if they meet only the youngest child and no-one else, or Daddy and no-one else.
The reason that the understanding and appreciation of the whole is diminished by being reduced (to its individual parts as I said above) is simply that life (and growth) is dependent on how each part interacts with the other in the system, in our case the family.
The act of reducing will diminish the appreciation of the importance of the constant interaction.
This is what makes the family dynamic (that is, constantly changing), and open, (that is, subject to internal and external influences) further implying that the family is constantly active and interactive within itself and its environment, rather than waiting passively to respond to an external stimulus.
So you will notice that most of the things that matter a lot to us are emergent. (For example, life itself, love, growth, confidence, music, family, art, etc.).
And X-Factor notwithstanding, singing a song is not, I believe, something that can be measured using reductive measurement!
The similarity between the descriptions of the song, the painting, and story etc. and the description of the Sun in the paragraph on Cause and Effect is obvious.